Uniqueness

Posted on May 1st, 2010

“As we grow as unique persons, we learn to respect the uniqueness of others.” Robert H. Schuller

centeredWe are each unique beings; physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. In addition to having a distinctive finger print, iris and voice pattern, we have a unique combination of personality quirks, feelings and thoughts. We each see life through the lens of our own unique experience, beliefs and perspective.

When we embrace our uniqueness, our gifts and talents come to life. Our soul has permission to shine through. When we conform in order to fit in, be accepted and avoid rejection, we shut down, numb out and give our power away. As we learn to practice self-acceptance and honor diversity, we feel safe to be our authentic self.

We all long to be seen for who we really are; not just our physical image and personality, but who we are as spiritual beings expressing our uniqueness in human form. Although we are all one at our core, at the same time we are unique vibrations of energy. When someone recognizes and acknowledges this, we feel seen and known on a deep level.

If we don’t embrace our uniqueness we may strive to be special. Special implies better than, more talented or gifted than others. It stands out from the rest, whereas uniqueness is a recognition that we are all special in our own way; no one is any better than another, just different. One person has a talent for making others laugh, another has the ability to evoke emotions by creating beautiful music, and yet another can listen with such compassion that those close by feel nurtured and understood.

Each human, plant and creature on this earth is unique, just as each planet in our solar system has distinct characteristics, and each galaxy in the universe displays it’s own brilliance, yet we all share the same divine essence.

Insights into Uniqueness

♦ Reflect on your friends and family members and explore what is unique about each of them. Do they have a unique voice and laugh? What are their distinctive personality quirks? Do they see the world differently than you? What unique gifts do they bring into your life and into the world? What is it you particularly like about them?

♦ What is unique about you? Is it your bluntness, kindness, whacky sense of humor? Perhaps its how you blurt out inappropriate comments at a dinner gathering, or see right through to the heart of the matter, or have a calming affect on those around you. Notice what triggers you, what touches your heart and what sets you apart from others. What are you known for? What are your strengths? What about your so called weaknesses, perhaps these are just part of your unique package that makes you perfect as you are. Embrace all aspects of your unique self.

♦ What happens to you when you try to fit in with a group or blend in with others in a way that covers up your uniqueness? How does it feel? What about when you embrace your uniqueness? How does it feel to be your authentic self?

Inspiration for Embracing Your Uniqueness


♦ What gets in the way of embracing your uniqueness and being your authentic self? What do you need to do to feel safe and acceptant of yourself and others? Let go of any limiting beliefs or fears that block you from being authentic.

♦ What supports you to be real and authentic? Is it your state of mind and emotions or is it dependent on who you are with? Regardless of how others view you, embrace your uniqueness and let it shine out with friends, family and strangers. Honor the diversity of others and notice how this supports you to be yourself.

♦ Touch into your unique vibration beyond your physical image, thoughts, emotions and personality. Close your eyes and center within yourself. Say hello to your mind and to your body. Notice thoughts, emotions and sensations, and then go deeper into your spiritual self. Feel your expansive true nature and notice the quality of your unique vibration as a spiritual being.

Do you have any questions or insights on how to embrace your uniqueness? Please share below.


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7 Responses to “Uniqueness”

  1. Patty Fredercik Says:
    May 2nd, 2010 at 10:15 am

    Hi Gini,

    I just went through a painful year losing my sister to cancer a year ago May 1st, and a I had to let go of a 6 year relationship in Dec also.

    My uniqueness is a good listener, good humour, kind, considerate, compassionate, empethetic, nurturing…

    Prior to that relationship I had been putting out to the Universe, my desire to create in film editing, had taken courses in ‘96, 97. I didnt have the funds to get a home studio either. I tried sending out
    my interest to local studios to volunteer, or to just watch how other film editors did their crafts, I always felt that desire even though I hadnt had the physical experience, is that delusional?
    2001 I put it out to the Universe once more, when I bumped into someone I knew but not all that well, and she was doing the music for a production on with a small Acting group in Vancouver, I let her know my interests. We continued to get together in her studio, fell in love, moved in and taught me how to Dj. I started to open for her on special event nights at the club for the next 4 years. I tried to learn editing from her, somehow our personalities didnt match for the teachings, I felt it was really hard to open up my learning channels, she didnt have alot of patience, in the studio, or in the clubs when I asked her questions, she would just say in a negative tone, I’ve already showed you…. and I would just put my tale between my legs and feel closed down, and stupid.

    I know I am talented, the creator gave me an ear to learn music, when I was young. I played guitar by ear. I could pic up other instruments and play them. It felt right for film editing when I had an experience in a studio years ago I felt like I won a million bucks when I watched what was going on it felt so right the feeling I had was indescribable.

    Sorry for the long interlude of a bit of my history, I thought it may give some insight to you on how I can generate my passion to create again.

    I know that you mentioned when we embrace our unigueness, our gifts and talents come to life.

    Perhaps you could email me an insight or two…
    Blessings, Patty Frederick, Vancouver BC

  2. Gini Grey Says:
    May 3rd, 2010 at 1:31 pm

    Hello Patty,

    My heartfelt compassion for your losses Patty. Losing a sister and a long term relationship all in one year is a lot. And yet, as some areas of our life come to an end, this creates space for new areas to open up and bloom.

    I think that following your desire to explore film editing even though you hadn’t had the physical experience is your heart and soul beckoning you forward. As you said, it felt like receiving a huge winning watching what was going on in a film studio - that’s a strong signal from your higher self.

    It’s unfortunate but not surprising that your partner wasn’t able to be an appropriate teacher for you. Couples often go through the power struggle stage and this can manifest when one has more experience or knowledge than the other - sometimes one ends up behaving in the ‘better than’ way by becoming frustrated etc. and the other takes on the ‘less than’ role. But these are just temporary feelings and roles. You know deep within what your gifts and talents are and what you are passionately drawn to.

    I believe that as you take time to touch into your current heart and soul longings and put that out once again to the Universe, you will be led to the next step on your journey towards film editing, or wherever your passion leads you(sometimes our passion shifts and changes over time and it’s important to be in present time with it).

    It sounds like you gained some valuable experience with your last partner, so who knows what wonderful experiences will come your way this time. Touch into the self-affinity you have for yourself and your uniqueness every day as a way to create a safe space for your gifts and talents to open further.

    Take care,

    Gini

  3. Patty Fredercik Says:
    May 6th, 2010 at 9:19 pm

    Hi Gini,

    Thankyou so much for giving your beautiful insights. I truly appreciate your prompt response WOW…
    I will set your comment on my alter, where I keep my prayers.
    to continue what you suggest….

    Nameste, Patty Frederick

  4. Mei hoh Says:
    December 21st, 2010 at 2:21 pm

    Ahhh…. I felt much better and celebrating each day with you Gini and all those spirits around me :) Thank you.

  5. Gini Grey Says:
    December 21st, 2010 at 4:01 pm

    You’re so welcome, Mei ho. Thank you for joining me here and sharing your comment.

    Blessings,

    Gini

  6. Mei hoh Says:
    December 22nd, 2010 at 1:25 pm

    Hey Gini,

    May I know what is your animal spirit? I am in the process of looking for mine, so far it hasnt been easy nor obvious. It should not be that difficult, maybe I am not on the right path.

  7. Gini Grey Says:
    December 22nd, 2010 at 1:47 pm

    Hello Mei hoh,

    Years ago when I was asked what animal I would like to be if I were one, I was drawn to cats - black panther, tiger or lion (I am a Leo in western astrology). But when I did a nine totem animal spread with Medicine Cards by Jamie Sams and David Carson, I pulled the Wolf and the Horse as my two side animals which represent the masculine and feminine aspects. I resonated with each of these. The wolf is known as the “Teacher” and the horse is “Power”. I don’t know if either of these is my animal spirit but this combination fits with me as I have been on a spritual journey of owning my inner power and I also love to teach others.

    In the book that accompanies the cards, it mentions that these animals may come to you in your dreams or that you may be drawn to them. Perhaps if you invite your animal spirit to reveal itself in your dreams or in meditation or even in your waking life somehow, it will.

    Take care,

    Gini

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